As we tumble headlong towards the excitement and renewal that is 2012, I find myself questioning why humans seem to focus on making things perfect all the time. As I was clearing out the shed this morning, desperately trying to get the new cycle covers to fit perfectly, I suddenly realised how much trouble we cause with our focus on perfection. Because we don’t just demand perfection from ourselves, we also expect it from others. And their perfection is rarely ours, and vice versa – result: conflict, and all the wasted energy that comes with that.
I came in from the shed, and sat at my PC, only to find this insight, shared by my great friends Gareth and Jeroen, otherwise known as Ego Invenio:
So in 2012, keep your focus on what you can do well, and brings joy to your heart, not on what others seem to do better than you. And forget about striving for perfection. Because perfection is simply not possible – if you were really perfect, you’d be unbearable for all those around you!
Have a great 2012!
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